I know it’s been ages since we talked, but I wanted to say I really respect all that you’ve accomplished so far. I’m at a point in my life where I feel that I haven’t done much of anything, but reading about how you persevered and got things done was inspiring (I know that wasn’t the point of your post, but it really resonated with something in me).

As for the relationship thing, it’s hard as others have said. It’s hard enough to manage your own life along with making it fit with someone else’s. But I believe that when two people are meant to be together, they make it work. I hope everything works out for you.

A glimmer of hope: I’ve found that, as I’ve gotten a little older, I’ve gotten wiser and calmer in my relationships. It’ll smooth out for you.

jerri, relationships wouldn’t be so hard if it was a team thing… but i can’t have a relationship with myself